jun. - I will say that I think the issue is different for older men dating younger women. I could elaborate Gonna get negged to death for this but I find girls that sleep with men old enough to be their fathers odd. The reason I hear all . 23 and I'm 17, no sex, just made out a bit in a club in spain! Originally Posted by MsAnnThrope I'm dating "old guys" and I would say overall the changes begin late 30's, pretty much whatever physical. She said some odd things and before they had sex he asked her how old she was. At that point, she admitted to being only 14 years old. He freaked out and took her home but the damage was already done. He was charged with "indecent liberties with a minor" and spent 21 months in prison. He is now on How is sex with an older man? Free Dating, Singles and.